MontrealB15
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I've noticed that when I happen to deal with girls at work who are about my age, I often get treated like they assume I'm hitting on them. Basically, they will act super cold in a way to show me that they are not interested, or whatever, when in reality I am just being nice (and doing my job), and not flirting with them at all.
It doesn't stop there. Today I was eating at Three Amigos (had an hour to kill and needed to eat), alone, and the waitress seated two girls about my age (20) next to me. I looked over like I would normally do at anybody who would sit there, and then a minute later they moved. I could hear them at their new table laughing saying something on the lines of "oh my god, I swear he was checking you out, I'm sure he would've started hitting on us had we not moved". For fucks sakes woman, I was sitting there minding my own business, eating by myself!
These are just two of many instances.
I am not ugly. I am not going to brag and say that I'm super good looking, but I'm fairly handsome, tall, and in decent shape. I just don't understand why women automatically assume I'm going to hit on them? I have a GF and am not even looking, so I find it strange. I am sure some of you can relate...
It doesn't stop there. Today I was eating at Three Amigos (had an hour to kill and needed to eat), alone, and the waitress seated two girls about my age (20) next to me. I looked over like I would normally do at anybody who would sit there, and then a minute later they moved. I could hear them at their new table laughing saying something on the lines of "oh my god, I swear he was checking you out, I'm sure he would've started hitting on us had we not moved". For fucks sakes woman, I was sitting there minding my own business, eating by myself!
These are just two of many instances.
I am not ugly. I am not going to brag and say that I'm super good looking, but I'm fairly handsome, tall, and in decent shape. I just don't understand why women automatically assume I'm going to hit on them? I have a GF and am not even looking, so I find it strange. I am sure some of you can relate...