1. The deplorable condition of roads
That's the only smart/valid point you made. Yes our roads suck, that's pretty obvious. However, like it was mentioned previously, there's no point in comparing our roads to California's... they don't have snow/ice/cold/extreme temperate shifts.
2. Lack of general care for cars.
Is this a joke lol? Yeah, this is a car enthusiast forum, I give you that, but not everybody cares for their cars. I have a hi fi audio setup at home, when I hear your piece of shit radio it bothers me but I don't post a rant on the internet.
Listen, not everybody has money to attribute to their car(s), some people respectfully place their priorities elsewhere; this isn't a bad thing.
Reading your post makes me believe you come from money, especially when you say something as stupid as:
"A lot of grown men seem not-embarrassed to drive a rusted out, poo-colored Toyota Echos."
Do you think that if these men had the choice, they would be driving a rusted piece of shit? Ah no, they should try and look cool and blow their savings account on a leased 323 with no added options - yeah, that will get them further.
3. Laws stacked against car ownership.
Again like previously mentioned, you're contradicting yourself. You can't lower prices for driving education and tickets and expect better drivers and less traffic.
Not sure if serious?
" it would be nice if I could get Synthetic oil and OEM parts at what Americans pay"
They pay less for oil in general, not just for their motor oil. You can go even further and ask yourself: wouldn't it be nice if we could pay what Venezuelans pay for their oil/gas? How about we all move to South America? Poor roads, poor cars, oh yeah, poor people - although they do value religion,family, and community (to be honest, they probably have their priorities in better check than us, but that's a whole different topic). What I'm getting at is that we pay more for oil and other goods, Europe pays more than us and so on. Some countries export, some import, they have oil, we need oil. Basic form of trade right there. Get used to it.
Is your post even serious?
Oh and lol to the dude who likes to eat at the Olive Garden. Oliver Garden = McDonalds that serves pasta.