Hi,
I'm currently in the process of installing a RB25 into my S14. First thing first, you have to ask yourself what kind of power you want. Also, as you probably know, the RB weighs more and is bigger. Considering this, if you want a good and reliable setup, you could do the same thing as I'm doing.
First, get some Top Hat Performance engine mounts that will put the RB lower in the engine bay and closer to the firewall, minimizing the chances of messing up the overall balance of the car. Also, you will need a driveshaft that you can get from Top Hat, or you could always use a yoke of a 300zx twin turbo with a custom driveshaft. You will also need a custom downpipe.
That's only for the installation of the engine in the car. While the engine is not installed in the car, I suggest you do the same as I did, which means changing all of the gaskets in the RB (get a complete RB25 OEM gasket kit) including the headgasket (OEM head gasket will do the job just fine, don't get a Cometic as it could cause some problems if the engine is not machined). Also, get a new clutch, along with a new water pump and oil pump. Also, new spark plugs and timing belt. Replace all hoses that are cracked, inspect the turbo and exhaust manifold for leaks. Also, clean everything to take off carbon deposits.
Last but not least, tuning! Get something good for tuning to make sure you're not running lean or rich (I got a Greddy e-Manage ultimate with a Wideband).
I know this is a lot of money (right now I'm at 4000$ and missing a 3" cat-back exhaust, high-flow cat, brakes and suspension to handle the bigger and more powerful engine) but if you do all this, you are making sure the engine will run great and putting all the chances on your side. I know you aren't made of money, but you haven't chosen the easiest swap cost-wise. If you want the swap to be reliable, you gotta take the time needed and buy what's needed also..
After all this, you could upgrade the turbo and achieve some nice power. You could always stick with the stock turbo, but I wouldn't suggest going over 10 psi as suggested by several RB25 owners, unless you want to lose some wheels from the turbo
If you have any questions about the swap just let me know, thanks.