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Is this reasonable behaviour from a roommate?
She's often asking my work schedule, ok since it's changed a bit recently as I cover my colleague who's going on vacation. But last night it was 23:15, I was sitting quietly in the living room listening to a show with wireless headset as not to disturb her. She yells from upstairs what time I plan to go to bed. Yes, she likes to act like mom. I ignore her. She yells again..you better not go too late, you have to work tomorrow!. Mind you this is someone who used to shower until 1:00 with her door wide open, almost an invitation to join her.
Then this morning I'm in my bathroom with the door closed, electric toothbrush whirring and she yells from the hallway, I can't understand as the sound is muffled. I stop brushing and tell her I'm busy, getting angry as I also felt cold and semi tired. She yells again asking if I was going to work today. Duhh lady, you asked me that the night before and several times other days. Then I replied I'm busy preparing for work...what does she want? She then yells that she'll be turning off the heat since she's leaving. It was below 0 at that time. She's very frugal. This will have been the fourth time she turns off or lowers the heat to supposedly save energy. Last time she also left a window open all day and it was noticeably cold in the house as she had turned the furnace back on just 30 mins before my return.
Is her behaviour reasonable?
She's often asking my work schedule, ok since it's changed a bit recently as I cover my colleague who's going on vacation. But last night it was 23:15, I was sitting quietly in the living room listening to a show with wireless headset as not to disturb her. She yells from upstairs what time I plan to go to bed. Yes, she likes to act like mom. I ignore her. She yells again..you better not go too late, you have to work tomorrow!. Mind you this is someone who used to shower until 1:00 with her door wide open, almost an invitation to join her.
Then this morning I'm in my bathroom with the door closed, electric toothbrush whirring and she yells from the hallway, I can't understand as the sound is muffled. I stop brushing and tell her I'm busy, getting angry as I also felt cold and semi tired. She yells again asking if I was going to work today. Duhh lady, you asked me that the night before and several times other days. Then I replied I'm busy preparing for work...what does she want? She then yells that she'll be turning off the heat since she's leaving. It was below 0 at that time. She's very frugal. This will have been the fourth time she turns off or lowers the heat to supposedly save energy. Last time she also left a window open all day and it was noticeably cold in the house as she had turned the furnace back on just 30 mins before my return.
Is her behaviour reasonable?