There is nothing wrong with you...
The best advice I can give you is for you to go out with your friends more often for now to ''reset'' your mindset and also encourage her to go out with her friends more often.
This will give both of you space and will allow you to miss each other more... A routine relationship always ends up in a dead end.
And if you feel the need to go bang on the side .. DO IT !!!! But make sure its not a regular thing .. It will make you appreciate your girl more with time !
Can't be eating the same meal for the rest of your life
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One of the secrets to a long marriage is: stay out of the house!
As bad as that sounds it will make you appreciate her more often. Especially if she's truly wifey material.
Sluts are a dime a dozen and you will regret giving up quality over quantity.
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45, married for 23 years, known my wife since we were 13. She's always known I didn't want kids but after we bought our house (same house, 18yrs) I approached HER to have a baby. We did and our daughter turns out, is great.
She was potty trained by 18 months, slept her nights at 8 weeks (6hr nights) she's not excellent in school but she's above average in most her classes, she's graduating high-school this year and we have fun playing video games together. She's getting her drivers license and my wife and I are showing her how to drive properly because her driving instructor is a pinhead. I'd have had 3 kids like her but we just couldn't, blood type thing, doctors are surprised our daughter even exists.
My wife kept miscarrying as her body rejected the wrong blood type baby. Not to take chances and for my wife's health I had a vasectomy. No regrets, don't really care enough about kids to complain, neither does my wife and in a few days we are leaving for an adults only resort alone as a couple.
Since day one of our relationship (ok maybe not day one but after the "honeymoon" stage) we each had our things outside the house. I used to have hockey buddies that I played hockey with once a week + my garage leagues and GMHL, we got too old to play competitive hockey so we became poker buddies and now once a month we play poker, smoke cigars, drink beer, scotch, etc. Once a year we drive out of town for a week-end just as buddies, no wives no kids, I'm the youngest in my group of friends, we range all the way up to 56. Ironically the 56 year old has the youngest kids under 10 yr old.
If you feel "trapped" you should try the "have your own room" thing. I've had people make fun of me on MR (not IRL) because of this but trust me, it's great. In my case the reason we decided on that has been discussed here before but essentially she became a heavy snorer after her pregnancy, even though she's 5'2"/110lbs she sounds like a lawnmower so it started like that.
Now, there's no misunderstanding, no fussing about. 2AM I feel like a cookie? No problem, go to kitchen get cookie, eat cookie go back to bed, I didn't bother anyone. She wants a glass of milk she does the same. I want to stay up until midnight to watch Neflix or play Mario Kart? No problem, no worries I'll wake her when I return to bed.
Incredibly even after 23 years we have sex 3-4 times/week (yes with each other... ) and it's great. No fussing about either and most nights we have sex it's in her bed, afterwards I stay and cuddle for a while, sometimes I stay the night, often I wake up after a while and return to my own room where I have my own stuff, TRUST ME it does not get any better than that.
Tant mieux si les enfants ça t'intéressent pas. J'ai absolument rien contre ça. Toutefois, il fait être clair et direct avec la fille et ne pas laisser de zone grise miroiter dans ça tête durant des années.
Oui oui definitivement il faut lui dire qu'on veut pas d'enfants. J'ai rien contre les enfants at large mais des fois ceux des autres peuvent me tomber sur les nerfs assez vite, tze le soir de la st-valentin quand t'es dans un 4/5 etoiles pour un souper a 80$/personne pis t'as 2 kid qui couraillent entre les tables ca te tente juste de t'etirer une patte un peu...