Bad306 is kinda right about restaurants tho. I find they are terrible fucking dates, especially the first time. Stuck behind a table trying to whip up a conversation out of thin air, it's not for everybody. I'm fucking terrible at them and always was. It pays to be honest with yourself. If you suck ass at restaurant dates, do other things, plus you won't be put in a situation where you're expected to pay. If the girl insists on going to a fucking restaurant and you don't want to, tell her you're looking for someone more creative, then stand the fuck back and laugh at her attempts to climb out of the hole she dug for herself. Good girls want to meet people, it doesn't matter that much where they meet them. Let's go for a long walk, let's go just have a coffee, to a museum, go karts, fucking let's go shopping together who cares. It's much more stimulating and natural.