cassard
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So I've been single for what 3-4 month now and I have a friend that I did my Bachelor degree with that in the last semester we've got to know each other more. I started to get interested and she started giving me signals that she could be interested, but was kind of ON and OFF about thoses signals. Sometimes no respond, sometimes nice and clear responds. Thing is, I learned from a lot of people that she's very inexperienced in relationships and she's very insecure and shy about that kind of stuff, that part I don't really mind, cause I don't have any problems taking the lead.
I also learned by one of her friend, that at our graduation she clearly said she was interested in my and an other guy and that she didn't know what to do, but soon after, she dropped the other guy. So until now everything seemed good, but she is still giving me thoses kinds of ON and OFF signals, like sometime she give like short cold shoulder/answers, but as soon as I'm a bit busy for a day or two, she text me or answer me personnally to my feeds to get my attention or to talk to me.
So either things like she told me she like my kind of humor or that we have a lot of points in commons, etc.
Or either things like she chokes when I asked he to do something together. But when I organise a bbq with our friends she comes for sure. Or she evade answers when I tell her that I'm happy to see her.
So I'm starting to tell myself : Do I have to say my intentions even more clearly to see her answer. Or Do I drop the case.
Anybody have got a similar situation ?
I also learned by one of her friend, that at our graduation she clearly said she was interested in my and an other guy and that she didn't know what to do, but soon after, she dropped the other guy. So until now everything seemed good, but she is still giving me thoses kinds of ON and OFF signals, like sometime she give like short cold shoulder/answers, but as soon as I'm a bit busy for a day or two, she text me or answer me personnally to my feeds to get my attention or to talk to me.
So either things like she told me she like my kind of humor or that we have a lot of points in commons, etc.
Or either things like she chokes when I asked he to do something together. But when I organise a bbq with our friends she comes for sure. Or she evade answers when I tell her that I'm happy to see her.
So I'm starting to tell myself : Do I have to say my intentions even more clearly to see her answer. Or Do I drop the case.
Anybody have got a similar situation ?