Minchia
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You mention bachelors degree so i'm guessing she's in her early to mid twenties? If her signals leave you confused or are unclear she maybe already classified you in the "friend" category. Secondly she was confused who to "choose" between you and this other guy? Are you positive that this other guy isn't still in the picture. All depending on your last relationship maybe she doesn't want to be your rebound so she's protecting herself from getting attached. The longer you wait the more chances you have to hear "I don't want to lose our friendship by trying a more serious relationship" excuse. Could it be that she wanted to remain "single" for her little trip to Hawaii in hopes of getting it on with some other dudes over there. Just throwing out all possibilities.