Anecdote about my "feminine" side. A long (long) time ago, before I was with my wife - I must have been 18 or 19yrs old, I didn't have a girlfriend and some friends and I used to go to this underground bar called "Mars" in Montreal, not very popular place but they used to play what was then Alternative music (techno today... sigh...) like Bauhaus or Love and Rockets, The Cure, Depeche Mode (before they were popular) and even New Order.
I was trying to pick up this girl you know, the usual when you're 18: Basically blowing smoke up her ass to get her to come home with me, anyways, at a certain point she told me she preferred to have sex with girls to which I replied: "Great! We have something in common then. Not only am I super in touch with my feminine side, but I ALSO prefer to have sex with girls."
We went to her place. lol... 1989 was a simpler time. Back then you had to talk a girl into leaving a bar and it was always mutually agreed that once we left the bar we knew that we were going to be having sex or at least that some type of fooling around was going to happen. There was effort required, courting was involved. Even one night stands meant something.
Today: Tinder.... directly followed by #meetoo lol.