So, im pretty smart with my money. While not a huge baller yet (time will come, dont worry), and never flossing at all, my friends know i have a decent amount so im always, or it feels like im always the first guy that my friends ask when they run into some issues and they have to borrow money. When its small < 1K amount, i lend most of the time, and i get paid sporadically, but who cares. Most of the friends that ask me for these insignificant amounts are usually somewhat irresponsible financially. But now, I have this friend, who is a really hard working and nice guy and who ran into some pretty big issue recently..divorce, kids etc. i dont know the whole story but anyways he needs a pretty big amount. 10k.
i wanna help him, because hes a useful guy for society, hes highly motivated and highly skilled at his trade and he's starting a new career in construction this month but hes living with unnecessary amounts of stress right now. i saw him today and he had a zombie face. He looked desperate and he half-hearted asked me to help him and I wanna help him and ive got the money for it, but im tired that funds are coming from me. i need capital to invest in my own projects, im not in the business of lending to friends. ive lost a friend because of it and it sucks. most friends dont repay. I feel like this guy would repay me, but again, i dont want my money being tied into that deal and getting notorized, then waiting, then having to be an asshole if things go sour etc.. im not looking to score a high return on investment on my friends anyways. He said banks wouldnt loan to him because his debt level isnt good. Im not sure if he asked one of those fucking Kijiji high interest lenders. Anyways, declaring bankruptcy would be a horrible option here since hes going to start a high earning and secure job reasonably soon. He just needs some liquidity right now. What can he do besides asking me or the mob?
i wanna help him, because hes a useful guy for society, hes highly motivated and highly skilled at his trade and he's starting a new career in construction this month but hes living with unnecessary amounts of stress right now. i saw him today and he had a zombie face. He looked desperate and he half-hearted asked me to help him and I wanna help him and ive got the money for it, but im tired that funds are coming from me. i need capital to invest in my own projects, im not in the business of lending to friends. ive lost a friend because of it and it sucks. most friends dont repay. I feel like this guy would repay me, but again, i dont want my money being tied into that deal and getting notorized, then waiting, then having to be an asshole if things go sour etc.. im not looking to score a high return on investment on my friends anyways. He said banks wouldnt loan to him because his debt level isnt good. Im not sure if he asked one of those fucking Kijiji high interest lenders. Anyways, declaring bankruptcy would be a horrible option here since hes going to start a high earning and secure job reasonably soon. He just needs some liquidity right now. What can he do besides asking me or the mob?