3-months salary seems insane. I'm admitting to myself that I"m starting to save now for a ring. I don't intend to spend any more than 1-2k on it, and a creative, meaningful way to present it. Truth be told, I think the notion of standing up in front of the world to voice how you will treasure your woman is far more indicative of your intentions than how much money you spent on a ring. To hear the guy call anything less than xx amount of $$ "an insult" is completely absurd.