^^ "Reste un peu indifférent mais pas trop"
Nenon, tiens toi occupé, comme ça tu vas vraiment avoir de quoi d'autre à faire que de te dire "bon ben à soir je joues tu à l'indifférent ou je l'appelle?" et de constamment jouer avec cette balance là dans ta tête au lieu de la vivre par tes hobbies et autres activités.
Quand tu commence à rusher parce que la solitude pointe le bout de son nez, jouer à une game d'attitude mentale et te poser des questions sur la perception que les filles ont de toi est la dernière chose que tu as besoin. Est-ce que j'ai l'air trop dépendant? Est-ce que je devrais la texter? This is not the kind of game you need cause you are only playing it on yourself. Sitting at home in your head and telling yourself "Tonight I'm not calling her" is infinitely more self conscious than not calling her because you were out to the gym, jamming with friends or taking a cooking class or whatever. Not saying it should never happen, but it should not always be like that, you need to keep yourself busy.
See what I mean?
You do need some self control to avoid freaking girls out, but this should be obvious to any sane person, and your "game" should not be strictly based on this, because at some point there should be a reason why you are not needy, attention dependant, or completely swerving off your path for any given girl, and that reason is that before you met her, you were already doing a bunch of fun shit, and you keep doing them after you know her which is why you don't always have time to see her/call her/bang her (yes).
Tiens toi OCCUPÉ, voit tes chums, etc. It's not about wondering what you should do, it's a bout deciding what you like to do and doing it.
